After a good nights sleep we are ready for our second day in San Jose. We meet Joaquin who works for University of Dreams and is a walking guidebook of Costa Rican culture. First things first, Joaquin wanted to cover all bases of protection and ways to be safe so he gave us tips on how to carry our bags, hiding money and responding to vendors who try and sell you things with the intention of ripping you off. Now being aware of all precautions we begin our tour. Joaquin pointed out the government buildings of Costa Rica, embassy’s, major plazas, theaters and landmarks.

We were given a large sum of Costa Rican colones for bus and taxi transportation but the money given to us was 10,000 colones which is a little less than 20 dollars being that the exchange rate is 540 colones = 1 dollar. It began to rain and then it started pouring so it was time to ride the bus. Before getting on the bus we had a task to go and break the colones into smaller change because we needed to ride the bus later. I stopped at a coffee shop and ordered a small chai tea, little did I know that my “chai tea” became this extravagant drink with different swirls, colors and it also included their own version of a blended chai tea. Lets just say it was high calorie and a little too much for me so I had a few sips and tossed it! But, I got the change that I needed and we headed for the bus. There are several bus stops all throughout town, its just a matter of actually making it on the right bus to take you to your destination. The bus fare was about 40 cents! The price of transportation via bus or taxi is extremely cheap which is why most people prefer to take the bus system or taxis because its so easy. We took the bus toward the University and got off to stop at a place called Bagelmen’s for lunch. Bagelmens was very American and so the food was definitely up to our standards. At Bagelmen’s we discussed our routes to work each day, differences in culture and homestays. After a brief seminar and lunch we headed toward “California street” which led us to the Universidad de Veritas. Because it was Sunday the school was closed so we did not get to see anything that exciting!
Things I have learned about the Costa Rican culture so far:
-Rice and beans: Rice and beans are served with every meal. For breakfast they have a special dish that is called “gallo pinto”. Its a gourmet dish and so different (sarcasm). “Gallo pinto” is a rice and beans mixture with some added spices.
-License plates: Depending on the last digit of your license plate is the specific day that you can drive. If your license plate ends in a number 1 you can only drive on Mondays and Tuesday, a number 2, Wednesdays and Thursdays, etc. On the weekend, everyone is free to drive. They had to do enforce this system because they did not realize how popular cars were going to be in San Jose.
-Taxis: Taxis do not stop for you. It does not matter if you are in a cross walk or not, they will run you over if you are in their way. In Costa Rica pedestrians do NOT have the right away.
-‘The blonde effect’: there is no way I am ever going to look like a Tica (a term used for Costa Rican women) because of my blonde hair. They call it the blonde effect because you immediately get honked at, you can stop traffic, hail any cab, and draw all attention to yourself even if you don’t want to. The blonde hair is a dead give away.
-Not giving a straight answer: Costa Ricans do not want to seem rude so they will never give you the straight answer of “NO”. Their culture is very high context and so you must look at their body language and listen to the way they answer you in order to understand if you are getting a “yes” or “no” answer.
Greetings: A greeting between woman to woman is greeted by an “air kiss” and hug which is given on the left. Men and women depending on the relationship exchange this same greeting or they exchange a handshake. A greeting man to man is greeted by a handshake. In Costa Rica giving a firm handshake like we do in the US is not allowed. If you do this you are considered “angry”. Haha I got a kick out of this because I am all about the handshake!
-Not giving change: if you have a large bill for a small purchase they have no problem refusing your business or telling you to go buy something more expensive because they don’t want to give you a lot of their change. They also give you a dirty look if you ask them for a large amount of change on a big bill.
After spending the afternoon exploring we met back at the hotel because it was time to get picked up by our families! I am staying with the Chavarria family and my mothers name is Adelaida, my fathers name is Alfonzo and they have 2 children, Julian-age 2 and Eva who is 6 months. They live in a nice two-story home, a few blocks from the University, with 4 bedrooms and bathrooms. Unfortunately the Costa Rican homes do not like nice at all from the outside because they are covered in tall gates, barbed wire and have barred windows (I guess they are trying to be extra cautious and follow up with the same safety precautions as their neighbors). We arrived at home and they showed me to my room that is a fairly good-sized room with a closet, double bed, desk, TV, and my own bathroom! I brought my family a few gifts that they definitely appreciated! I brought them a pound of sees candy, a pair of earrings for my mother, a rattle for Eva and a playdough kit for Julian. Upon arriving to the house I spent almost the entire evening talking with the family in English and Spanish and asked questions about their lifestyle, career, etc. My mother is a school teacher for 7th,8th and 9th grade students and my father is a computer engineer. I did not see too much of my father tonight because he was busy working outside. Their son, Julian, is in a preschool/daycare program and so he had homework that required painting…he then decided it was a great idea to paint my arm instead of his worksheet. After completing his homework we opened up the playdough gift and began to play with the playdough and the cut-outs….after about 15 minutes of fun he thought it would be really funny to throw every piece of playdough at me. I didn’t know I was living with a 2 year old terrorist. Eva, on the other hand, is the most easy going baby I have ever met and is so sweet. My mother and I had dinner together tonight which consisted of rice & beans, grilled chicken with guacamole, and vegetables with a Tica rice dessert. Mom, take note, I will not be in the mood for Mexican/Costa Rican food for a long time when I return to the US. Time to finish unpacking!